Lessons of Love

I share
lessons on love
and inspiration
to save our planet
on my Facebook page
... here are some
I shared this week.

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I wrote in my journal ... "My Beloved is wise, loving and kind to me… is compassionate and forgiving with me… understands, respects and honors me… cherishes and adores me… is warm with me… communicates openly with me…

Remember, to be with your Beloved, you need to be this way with yourself first…"

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The Spirit of Selfishness uses competition to put a Money Spell on people ... making people unhappy... causing them to be cold, cunning, calculating... seeking more and more... Only You can break the Money Spell ... meditate... relax... enjoy nature... live a good and simple life... enjoy serenity... be courageous... seek wisdom... create abundance and share with others... be happy and grateful... warm and loving... co-empowering, collaborative and co-creative...

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If you ever feel sad that you are not rich, powerful or more attractive ... remember... nothing is as it seems...

Money is nice... it will give you a sense of security or luxury... It will not bring you wisdom or true love where you feel honored and cherished... it will not bring you gentle joy... sweetness... or compassion and forgiveness ... These qualities need to be grown in your inner garden with patience, conscious awareness, and time... and only those qualities will save our dear, beautiful planet...

As you go about your day, don't forget to turn on your heartlight... all the tough guys and gals in the world don't even know they have a heartlight... poor souls... remember you can make someone's day with a kind word...

CREATING A LASTING LOVE...
 

* Distrust and betrayal in couples are built by being emotionally unavailable and emotionally bailing-out, interrupting, flaring-up, superficial listening and mind-reading, not allowing for differences, and disrespectful disagreements.

* Trust and loyalty are built when couples develop being emotionally available and present for each other, mindful calmness, patience, deep listening and clarifying, allowing for differences and respectful disagreements, and having healthy fun together.

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The ancient "Elixir of Love" can be found in reading 7 Keys to Love... it shares that we need to have forgiveness for lovers who don't love us anymore. In order for us to heal and grow into all we can be, it is good to heal the hurt and not let it turn into anger and resentment. Healing takes time, compassion and shifting to positive self-talk and positive energy, it is a daily practice, meditation helps. Healing takes compassion for yourself and compassion for the other. May we all be healed from love lost, and may we nurture healthy, self-love within. That becomes the door that opens to healthy, loving relationships and creating healthy, loving families and communities, and a healthy, loving, sustainable world.

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A friend posted a quote from me from 7 Keys to Love on her Facebook page … so true... "I forgive myself, others, and life for all that did not go as I wished..."

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A quote from the wise teacher Thich Nhat Hanh ...

For your copy of 7 Keys to Love or for speeches, lectures, workshops or interviews contact:
Sandy Hinden
sandyhinden@7keystolove.net 
Skype: Sanford.Hinden 
1-516-815-4967